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How To Kiss From The Movie Architecture 101

KISS, or The Art of Oral Sex, is an excellent way to learn how to kiss. While some may consider it a basic kissing technique, there are many different styles and flavors you can try.

Kissing is mostly done using your mouth and lips. The size of your tongue, the shapes of your mouths, and the style in which you lick, nibble, and swallow all make a difference in what kind of kisses you experience.

There are three main types of kisses: oral, manual, and genital. With enough practice, you will be able to mix and match between them to find the perfect level of intimacy for you and your partner.

This article will go into more detail about each type of kiss and some fun ways to apply them in the bedroom! If you’re looking to take things one step further, read our article about hot and heavy kissing.

Find the other person's mouth

The next thing you will want to do is find their mouth! Most people start this by kissing each other at the lips, but that is not the right way to begin kissing.

Kissing should be more than just putting your tongue in someone’s mouth, it should be exploring their mouths. Try experimenting with different types of kisses (lips, nose, cheeks, ears).

Some tips: When looking for their mouth, try rubbing your hands across their face like a check for soft skin, or look at how they are breathing – if they are very shallow then they might want to breathe easier so make sure to help them out.

Find the other person's nose

how to kiss from the movie architecture 101

Now that you have determined if your partner is awake or not, you can move onto the next step which is finding their mouth! This may seem tricky at first because most people learn how to kiss from either being shown it in a movie or doing it with their parents as children, so they never really practice kissing for no guidance.

Kissing has different rules depending on whether you are male or female. For example, men usually put their hands on the hips or up around the back of the neck while women typically like to feel like their body is part of our theirs to take control of.

Whatever feels good for you both is allowed! If you find yourself struggling then let each other guide what to do by asking every few seconds if there is anything else you should be doing.

Find the other person's cheek

how to kiss from the movie architecture 101

Now that you have chosen which side of the mouth to touch, find their cheek! The best way to do this is by looking at the face frame. Most people position their face so that their left cheek is exposed. This can be tricky if your partner does not have much hair or they cannot see their right cheek because of earrings or jewelry.

To avoid being confused as to whether or not their lips are next, take a good look at how their top lip curves under theirs.

Find the other person's ear

how to kiss from the movie architecture 101

Now that you have mastered the art of kissing with your hands, it is time to work on kissing with your mouth! The next stage in kissing comes down to finding the other person’s ear and giving them some soft kisses.

This way they can easily reach their hand for more kisses or even pull away if needed.

Find the other person's eye

how to kiss from the movie architecture 101

The next step in kissing is finding the other person’s eyes. This is arguably one of the most important steps in great kissers know how to do it!

When someone else is looking into your eyes, it creates a sense of intimacy. It makes them feel like they are being seen for who they really are, which is beautiful.

Kissing is an expression of love so why not show some love? When you find the other person’s gaze, then that can lead to more kisses or even sex sometimes.

Your natural instinct will be to lean in and meet their lips but instead try to focus on finding the other person’s eyes first. Once you have, gently lower your lips onto theirs.

Find the other person's forehead

how to kiss from the movie architecture 101

Now that you have determined where their mouth is, it’s time to learn how to kiss from the movie architecture! The next step is to find the other person’s forehead. This seems very complicated at first, but I will break down all of the components for you so that it makes sense.

First, make sure your hands are free to physically interact with each other. You can either take them out of the way or push them away if necessary.

Next, determine if they are closed or open-mouthed. If they are closed, then go up to their nose and pull back slightly. For women, when they yawn their lips peel back which creates an easier entry into kissing.

If they are open wide, then use your index finger as a guide and slowly close their mouth upward until their tongue comes in contact.

Touch your partner's face

how to kiss from the movie architecture 101

KISSING is one of the most fundamental things couples do, but how you kiss can be kind of confusing. If you watch romantic movies or read romance novels, you’ll probably get some good tips, but unfortunately, those tips may not always work in real life!

When it comes down to it, kissing is just like any other part of our body; if we don't use it, it will lose tone and function. Luckily, however, there are several basic ways to improve your kissing skills by practicing, re-practicing, and studying them.

One of the easiest ways to learn how to kiss is by kissing yourself. Yes, that sounds weird, but this technique works! By experimenting with different types of kisses (lips, nose, chin, etc.), and varying the position of your mouth, you'll find what positions feel natural to you.

Touch your partner's nose

how to kiss from the movie architecture 101

Now that you've got their mouth open, let's focus on getting those lips to close! The easiest way to do this is by touching their nose!
As mentioned before, kissing comes down to two things: keeping the rhythm of the kiss going and having enough saliva in order to enjoy kissing for extended periods of time.

So when you want to kiss someone, make sure you have enough liquid salivation in your own mouth first so that you're not dry. Yours should be running at least slightly wet!

Next, take their nose and gently press it against yours.

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